We all handle situations and challenges differently. Some people choose to get mad. Others need to talk. Others will write or perhaps get in a great workout or run. No matter how we choose to handle the challenges we face, so much of who we are relates to the perspective in which we view the situation.
I'm not going to lie, graduate school is tough. This experience has been much tougher than I expected. I've have learned a great deal through this process, and it's not even half over. I've faced some set-backs, been burnt in the process, and have become somewhat of a cynic. BUT...through it all, I feel blessed. Even after the worst day possible, there are moments where I feel so full and lucky. Again, it's about perspective in which I view these situations.
During my time working at ACHS, our school and community dealt with a number of tragedies. Those experiences taught me a lot about perspective. What it boils down to is that my life is pretty good. I'm healthy. My family is healthy. I have great friends, and now I have the chance to pursue my passions in graduate school. Yes, things might get me down, but I'll never take the life I live for granted. LIFE IS GOOD!
I guess I felt compelled to write simply because it's been on my heart. After learning of the death of another Ark City youth this past week, I felt like we all needed a reminder to keep everything in perspective. I'll listen to your woes, I'll offer you advice, and I'll try to help you get through your struggles. But, keep it in perspective. The life we lead is pretty damned good.
Bob, Reatha, and Jacey...you're in my prayers. Tyler, thank you for your service. I wish there were more selfless people in the world like yourself. You made the ultimate sacrifice.
